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#121 - Posted 5 September 2009, 5:57 PM
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Maturity:

Women: They mature much faster than men. Most 17-year old females can function as adults.

Men: Most 17-year old males are still trading baseball cards and giving each other wedgies after gym class. This is why high school romances rarely work out.


Magazines:

Men: Men's magazines often feature pictures of naked women. Men are turned on at the sight of a naked woman's body.

Women: Women's magazines also feature pictures of naked women. This is because the female body is a beautiful work of art, while the male body is lumpy and hairy and should not be seen by the light of day. Most naked men elicit laughter from women.

freddy krueger ,i agree with you.

You have tried hard to make me laugh , you finally did . "female body, beautiful piece of art"


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Roso. I just repeated what freddy krueger has said that "woman is a beautiful piece of art work "
Few things that freddy failed to say were that men go to war to protect that piece of art work
Men work hard to acquire that piece of art work
Men sing beautiful songs and write beautiful poems to glorify that piece of art work
Men exterminate other men to procure that piece of art work
Younger men get mean toward other older men for that piece of art work
Men need :Viagra , Cialis, Levitra ,Oyster, Mani , and Mamajuana to conquer and satisfy that piece of art work
Some men stuff their pants with toilet paper to look like they got a big package just to impress that piece of art work, ( if the shoe fits , wear it)
Edited on 9/5/2009 5:58 PM by etiennc01.
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#122 - Posted 6 September 2009, 8:18 AM
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etiennc01 previously said:

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generoso previously said:

Quote:
etiennc01 previously said:

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FredCDobbs previously said:


Maturity:

Women: They mature much faster than men. Most 17-year old females can function as adults.

Men: Most 17-year old males are still trading baseball cards and giving each other wedgies after gym class. This is why high school romances rarely work out.


Magazines:

Men: Men's magazines often feature pictures of naked women. Men are turned on at the sight of a naked woman's body.

Women: Women's magazines also feature pictures of naked women. This is because the female body is a beautiful work of art, while the male body is lumpy and hairy and should not be seen by the light of day. Most naked men elicit laughter from women.

freddy krueger ,i agree with you.

You have tried hard to make me laugh , you finally did . "female body, beautiful piece of art"


etiennc01
You are a sick puppy, mon ami.


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Roso. I just repeated what freddy krueger has said that "woman is a beautiful piece of art work "
Few things that freddy failed to say were that men go to war to protect that piece of art work
Men work hard to acquire that piece of art work
Men sing beautiful songs and write beautiful poems to glorify that piece of art work
Men exterminate other men to procure that piece of art work
Younger men get mean toward other older men for that piece of art work
Men need :Viagra , Cialis, Levitra ,Oyster, Mani , and Mamajuana to conquer and satisfy that piece of art work
Some men stuff their pants with toilet paper to look like they got a big package just to impress that piece of art work, ( if the shoe fits , wear it)


You are killing me, etiennc. LOL. I never used toilet paper for that purpose, so speak for yourself. I was partial to white gym socks, under the swimming shorts, since they are reusable, and don't fall apart with water.LOL
Edited on 9/6/2009 8:19 AM by generoso.
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#123 - Posted 6 July 2010, 6:23 PM
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women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"?Remember this old Chestnut ?
Remember this old Chestnut
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#124 - Posted 7 July 2010, 8:01 AM
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#125 - Posted 5 September 2010, 9:32 AM
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RE: women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"?Remember this old Chestnut ?
A woman comes home and tells her husband, 'Remember those headaches I've been having all these years? Well, they're gone.'

'No more headaches?' the husband asks, 'What happened?'

His wife replies, 'My friend referred me to a hypnotist & he told me to stand in front of a mirror, stare at myself and repeat,

I do not have a headache
I do not have a headache
I do not have a headache

Well, it worked! The headaches are all gone.'

'Well, that is wonderful' proclaims the husband.

His wife then says, 'You know, you haven't been exactly a ball of fire in the bedroom these last few years, why don't you go see the hypnotist and see if he can do anything for that?'

Reluctantly, the husband agrees to try it.

Following his appointment, the husband comes home, rips off his clothes, picks up his wife and carries her into the
Bed room. He puts her on the bed and says, 'Don't move, I'll be right back.'

He goes into the bathroom and comes back a few minutes later and jumps into bed and makes passionate love to his wife like never before.

His wife says, 'WOW ! - that was wonderful!'

The husband says, 'Don't move! I will be right back.'

He goes back into the bathroom, comes back and round two was even better than the first time.

The wife sits up and her head is spinning 'OH MY GOD' she proclaims.

Her husband again says, 'Don't move, I'll be right back.'

With that, he goes back in the bathroom.

This time, his wife quietly follows him in the bathroom, she sees him standing at the mirror and saying ...


She's not my wife
She's not my wife
She's not my wife'


His funeral service will be held Sunday
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#126 - Posted 5 September 2010, 8:20 PM
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I imagine Olivia that it is difficult for a woman to write here especially on this subject so full marks to you.I agree with nearly everything you wrote but I have been wondering about the poverty mentality . I doubt if I know any one person who is not Dominican who says that it is possible to have a lasting ,honest relationship with a Dominican ..and remarks have come from many other Latinos in Central and South America . The concept of mateship, friendship and relationships and marriages are very different here than they are , for example, in Europe as is the concept of good manners.
It is very easy to find Dominicans very good company but I have not seen or heard of any type of relationship being on an even balance,,,except on one occasion.
So when you write about a young Dominican woman having a lack of morals, I simply think that morals are just a totally different concept here and the chances of any lasting successful friendship or marriage on the lines that are acceptable in Europe are very remote here .
Actually I have known several young Dominican men who have been escorting European women but I have never known one to succeed. Even the parade of handsome muscle bound Dominican men escorting American women at Sosua Beach never ends in a relationship
I doubt ,Olivia, if you have met Dominicans who you could live your life with for ever ,,it is just because the culture and the things that are valued , say in Europe, are not so much valued here .
I think if you live here you just have to accept it but maintain your own values
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#127 - Posted 5 September 2010, 9:34 PM
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The problem of this situation in the Dominican Republic is based on a lack of morals and a poverty mentality. Dominican women are abused and treated badly by their husbands (i am not dominican so i know what i am talking about) by the time they are 25 (young in another country ) they are past it here and their husbands have put them through so much emotionally, spirituall and often physically that they are tough . They play the same game the men play on them ( women talk a lot in the salon!!) They cheat they lie they use ( men get sex women get money ) they see men as objects and have lost all respect for them as humans and as companions. The same as men have done through lack of moral and self control.

The male sex drive is higher as it is ordained to be by God. This ensures the continuacion of the human race ... because of lack of respect and self control in this country of both sexes not to mention a very low moral standard and a general acceptance of the situation , infidility is something you can be sure will happen in a marriage here. Abroad it may happen here it WILL happen , once that happenes something beautiful is lost between two people and distaster follows.

Then you put in the mix the foreigen men who are really quiet innocent to the whole situation.

The dominican woman knows how to play a man and a foreigen man is even easier than one here .These men dont come here to get married they come for a good time but get sucked in . They are for the most part played by these women who have all the tricks and DO NOT FALL IN LOVE as love only leaves you open to get hurt . This they know from experience or else they have been warned plenty by they mom aunties friend ... grandmothers (yes grandmothers) Love is out the window in this country very few people here are married for love and dont care about the money situation.

This is where the LIe is these men think they have the perfect sweet princess but really she is an old queen in her heart waiting for him to die or the marriage to end and she get her share either way she really doesnt care .... she is already tough to the situations life throws her . her heart is cold .

Young women here dont just marry old european men they like old dominican men too but the dominican men know the state of the heart of young women here and their thinking where a the outsider is just taken for a ride.


You are right in some instances. But you are wrong in many.
It’s true many young women become tough and end up loosing respect for men, but that is not always the case. A smart woman will know what type of men she wants her kid’s father to be, the one with the marriage and parental potential. And there are still lots of conservative females in DR. That you couldn’t find them, well that is another thing.
There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family.



And there are many that have taken the relationship with older men seriously, and have become part of their business, and are loyal and devoted wives.
I called to inquire regarding an apartment in a new building in Gazcue, and the call was answered by a girl with modest education, but trying hard and very diligent and intelligent. She was the young Dominican wife of the owner of the project, a Spaniard, and it showed that she came from modest means, but still she was trying real hard, and watching over the assets of her husband, like hawk. She was given an opportunity to come up in he world and she took it, and now is shining. Would she ever be accepted by the higher income snobbish Dominican society? Probably not, and with many reservations and murmuring behind her back, but who cares if she has strong enough of a personality to ignore these gossip hounds?.


"There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family."

All three of you raised interesting points which are correct in many ways. Poponlaburra's comment had mi esposa, mi hermana, mi tia and most of women in my home for the Holidays standing up and cheering. Great point "pop". As for a Dominican or latina wife as opposed to an American or other European, I would take a Dominican over any one else. When shown love, respect, commitment, Dominican women are the most loyal wives in the world. I would not trade mine for anyone else.
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#128 - Posted 7 September 2010, 9:13 AM
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RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"?
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oliviaP previously said:

The problem of this situation in the Dominican Republic is based on a lack of morals and a poverty mentality. Dominican women are abused and treated badly by their husbands (i am not dominican so i know what i am talking about) by the time they are 25 (young in another country ) they are past it here and their husbands have put them through so much emotionally, spirituall and often physically that they are tough . They play the same game the men play on them ( women talk a lot in the salon!!) They cheat they lie they use ( men get sex women get money ) they see men as objects and have lost all respect for them as humans and as companions. The same as men have done through lack of moral and self control.

The male sex drive is higher as it is ordained to be by God. This ensures the continuacion of the human race ... because of lack of respect and self control in this country of both sexes not to mention a very low moral standard and a general acceptance of the situation , infidility is something you can be sure will happen in a marriage here. Abroad it may happen here it WILL happen , once that happenes something beautiful is lost between two people and distaster follows.

Then you put in the mix the foreigen men who are really quiet innocent to the whole situation.

The dominican woman knows how to play a man and a foreigen man is even easier than one here .These men dont come here to get married they come for a good time but get sucked in . They are for the most part played by these women who have all the tricks and DO NOT FALL IN LOVE as love only leaves you open to get hurt . This they know from experience or else they have been warned plenty by they mom aunties friend ... grandmothers (yes grandmothers) Love is out the window in this country very few people here are married for love and dont care about the money situation.

This is where the LIe is these men think they have the perfect sweet princess but really she is an old queen in her heart waiting for him to die or the marriage to end and she get her share either way she really doesnt care .... she is already tough to the situations life throws her . her heart is cold .

Young women here dont just marry old european men they like old dominican men too but the dominican men know the state of the heart of young women here and their thinking where a the outsider is just taken for a ride.


You are right in some instances. But you are wrong in many.
It’s true many young women become tough and end up loosing respect for men, but that is not always the case. A smart woman will know what type of men she wants her kid’s father to be, the one with the marriage and parental potential. And there are still lots of conservative females in DR. That you couldn’t find them, well that is another thing.
There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family.



And there are many that have taken the relationship with older men seriously, and have become part of their business, and are loyal and devoted wives.
I called to inquire regarding an apartment in a new building in Gazcue, and the call was answered by a girl with modest education, but trying hard and very diligent and intelligent. She was the young Dominican wife of the owner of the project, a Spaniard, and it showed that she came from modest means, but still she was trying real hard, and watching over the assets of her husband, like hawk. She was given an opportunity to come up in he world and she took it, and now is shining. Would she ever be accepted by the higher income snobbish Dominican society? Probably not, and with many reservations and murmuring behind her back, but who cares if she has strong enough of a personality to ignore these gossip hounds?.


"There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family."

All three of you raised interesting points which are correct in many ways. Poponlaburra's comment had mi esposa, mi hermana, mi tia and most of women in my home for the Holidays standing up and cheering. Great point "pop". As for a Dominican or latina wife as opposed to an American or other European, I would take a Dominican over any one else. When shown love, respect, commitment, Dominican women are the most loyal wives in the world. I would not trade mine for anyone else.

Im glad you an Bonaoense are having a happy relationship!!! Kudos to your marriage!
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#129 - Posted 8 September 2010, 6:27 PM
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The women are looking for a stable relationship and someone to help them with the fatherless children they have thanks to "Love em and Leave em" Macho Dominicanos who only want to inpregnate as many women as possible.

Thank you Dominican Tigres for the beautiful girlfriend this old man has now!

Brasilenos, no longer using Brazilian themed screen names? :


Nah, he's just another troublemaker that got banned for the same reason on DR1.


I've never posted on DR1, might have been mi hermano or mi hermana..... and I'm no trouble maker.
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#130 - Posted 8 September 2010, 6:33 PM
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oliviaP previously said:

The problem of this situation in the Dominican Republic is based on a lack of morals and a poverty mentality. Dominican women are abused and treated badly by their husbands (i am not dominican so i know what i am talking about) by the time they are 25 (young in another country ) they are past it here and their husbands have put them through so much emotionally, spirituall and often physically that they are tough . They play the same game the men play on them ( women talk a lot in the salon!!) They cheat they lie they use ( men get sex women get money ) they see men as objects and have lost all respect for them as humans and as companions. The same as men have done through lack of moral and self control.

The male sex drive is higher as it is ordained to be by God. This ensures the continuacion of the human race ... because of lack of respect and self control in this country of both sexes not to mention a very low moral standard and a general acceptance of the situation , infidility is something you can be sure will happen in a marriage here. Abroad it may happen here it WILL happen , once that happenes something beautiful is lost between two people and distaster follows.

Then you put in the mix the foreigen men who are really quiet innocent to the whole situation.

The dominican woman knows how to play a man and a foreigen man is even easier than one here .These men dont come here to get married they come for a good time but get sucked in . They are for the most part played by these women who have all the tricks and DO NOT FALL IN LOVE as love only leaves you open to get hurt . This they know from experience or else they have been warned plenty by they mom aunties friend ... grandmothers (yes grandmothers) Love is out the window in this country very few people here are married for love and dont care about the money situation.

This is where the LIe is these men think they have the perfect sweet princess but really she is an old queen in her heart waiting for him to die or the marriage to end and she get her share either way she really doesnt care .... she is already tough to the situations life throws her . her heart is cold .

Young women here dont just marry old european men they like old dominican men too but the dominican men know the state of the heart of young women here and their thinking where a the outsider is just taken for a ride.


You are right in some instances. But you are wrong in many.
It’s true many young women become tough and end up loosing respect for men, but that is not always the case. A smart woman will know what type of men she wants her kid’s father to be, the one with the marriage and parental potential. And there are still lots of conservative females in DR. That you couldn’t find them, well that is another thing.
There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family.



And there are many that have taken the relationship with older men seriously, and have become part of their business, and are loyal and devoted wives.
I called to inquire regarding an apartment in a new building in Gazcue, and the call was answered by a girl with modest education, but trying hard and very diligent and intelligent. She was the young Dominican wife of the owner of the project, a Spaniard, and it showed that she came from modest means, but still she was trying real hard, and watching over the assets of her husband, like hawk. She was given an opportunity to come up in he world and she took it, and now is shining. Would she ever be accepted by the higher income snobbish Dominican society? Probably not, and with many reservations and murmuring behind her back, but who cares if she has strong enough of a personality to ignore these gossip hounds?.


"There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family."

All three of you raised interesting points which are correct in many ways. Poponlaburra's comment had mi esposa, mi hermana, mi tia and most of women in my home for the Holidays standing up and cheering. Great point "pop". As for a Dominican or latina wife as opposed to an American or other European, I would take a Dominican over any one else. When shown love, respect, commitment, Dominican women are the most loyal wives in the world. I would not trade mine for anyone else.

Im glad you an Bonaoense are having a happy relationship!!! Kudos to your marriage!


At least I have a wife silly kid, your Puerto Rican "salsa dancer" left you a year or so ago. No American is going to maintain a relationship with someone with no job, no money, no plans, no future and alot of debt. She dropped you like a "hot potato". I told you so. No money, no honey. Now laugh about tat. (And Don't send me PMs about telling your business loser)
Edited on 9/8/2010 6:34 PM by brasilenosisback.
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