Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? - Santo Domingo

#131 - Posted 9 September 2010, 2:59 PM
mirabal4ever Location: United States, OMNIPRESENT. El Cantinero de Jarabacoa. "Aguilucho desde Chiquitito" Join date: March 2009 Member #: 2380 Posts: 5010	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: brasilenosisback previously said: Quote: mirabal4ever previously said: Quote: brasilenosisback previously said: Quote: generoso previously said: Quote: poponlaburra previously said: Quote: oliviaP previously said: The problem of this situation in the Dominican Republic is based on a lack of morals and a poverty mentality. Dominican women are abused and treated badly by their husbands (i am not dominican so i know what i am talking about) by the time they are 25 (young in another country ) they are past it here and their husbands have put them through so much emotionally, spirituall and often physically that they are tough . They play the same game the men play on them ( women talk a lot in the salon!!) They cheat they lie they use ( men get sex women get money ) they see men as objects and have lost all respect for them as humans and as companions. The same as men have done through lack of moral and self control. The male sex drive is higher as it is ordained to be by God. This ensures the continuacion of the human race ... because of lack of respect and self control in this country of both sexes not to mention a very low moral standard and a general acceptance of the situation , infidility is something you can be sure will happen in a marriage here. Abroad it may happen here it WILL happen , once that happenes something beautiful is lost between two people and distaster follows. Then you put in the mix the foreigen men who are really quiet innocent to the whole situation. The dominican woman knows how to play a man and a foreigen man is even easier than one here .These men dont come here to get married they come for a good time but get sucked in . They are for the most part played by these women who have all the tricks and DO NOT FALL IN LOVE as love only leaves you open to get hurt . This they know from experience or else they have been warned plenty by they mom aunties friend ... grandmothers (yes grandmothers) Love is out the window in this country very few people here are married for love and dont care about the money situation. This is where the LIe is these men think they have the perfect sweet princess but really she is an old queen in her heart waiting for him to die or the marriage to end and she get her share either way she really doesnt care .... she is already tough to the situations life throws her . her heart is cold . Young women here dont just marry old european men they like old dominican men too but the dominican men know the state of the heart of young women here and their thinking where a the outsider is just taken for a ride. You are right in some instances. But you are wrong in many. It’s true many young women become tough and end up loosing respect for men, but that is not always the case. A smart woman will know what type of men she wants her kid’s father to be, the one with the marriage and parental potential. And there are still lots of conservative females in DR. That you couldn’t find them, well that is another thing. There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family. And there are many that have taken the relationship with older men seriously, and have become part of their business, and are loyal and devoted wives. I called to inquire regarding an apartment in a new building in Gazcue, and the call was answered by a girl with modest education, but trying hard and very diligent and intelligent. She was the young Dominican wife of the owner of the project, a Spaniard, and it showed that she came from modest means, but still she was trying real hard, and watching over the assets of her husband, like hawk. She was given an opportunity to come up in he world and she took it, and now is shining. Would she ever be accepted by the higher income snobbish Dominican society? Probably not, and with many reservations and murmuring behind her back, but who cares if she has strong enough of a personality to ignore these gossip hounds?. "There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family." All three of you raised interesting points which are correct in many ways. Poponlaburra's comment had mi esposa, mi hermana, mi tia and most of women in my home for the Holidays standing up and cheering. Great point "pop". As for a Dominican or latina wife as opposed to an American or other European, I would take a Dominican over any one else. When shown love, respect, commitment, Dominican women are the most loyal wives in the world. I would not trade mine for anyone else. Im glad you an Bonaoense are having a happy relationship!!! Kudos to your marriage! At least I have a wife silly kid, your Puerto Rican "salsa dancer" left you a year or so ago. No American is going to maintain a relationship with someone with no job, no money, no plans, no future and alot of debt. She dropped you like a "hot potato". I told you so. No money, no honey. Now laugh about tat. (And Don't send me PMs about telling your business loser) No please dont get angry Pluma Pluma! I understand you have a wife and you mentioned to me that you never thought you could ever fall in love with a she-male. Im so happy for you and yes i broke up with the lady but on good terms get it right. Just keep on trolling and lying you tough boy. no one is bothered. Edited on 9/9/2010 5:11 PM by mirabal4ever. Conocer al cojo sentao! Las Aguilas son Las Aguilas!!!!!!!!
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The problem of this situation in the Dominican Republic is based on a lack of morals and a poverty mentality. Dominican women are abused and treated badly by their husbands (i am not dominican so i know what i am talking about) by the time they are 25 (young in another country ) they are past it here and their husbands have put them through so much emotionally, spirituall and often physically that they are tough . They play the same game the men play on them ( women talk a lot in the salon!!) They cheat they lie they use ( men get sex women get money ) they see men as objects and have lost all respect for them as humans and as companions. The same as men have done through lack of moral and self control.

The male sex drive is higher as it is ordained to be by God. This ensures the continuacion of the human race ... because of lack of respect and self control in this country of both sexes not to mention a very low moral standard and a general acceptance of the situation , infidility is something you can be sure will happen in a marriage here. Abroad it may happen here it WILL happen , once that happenes something beautiful is lost between two people and distaster follows.

Then you put in the mix the foreigen men who are really quiet innocent to the whole situation.

The dominican woman knows how to play a man and a foreigen man is even easier than one here .These men dont come here to get married they come for a good time but get sucked in . They are for the most part played by these women who have all the tricks and DO NOT FALL IN LOVE as love only leaves you open to get hurt . This they know from experience or else they have been warned plenty by they mom aunties friend ... grandmothers (yes grandmothers) Love is out the window in this country very few people here are married for love and dont care about the money situation.

This is where the LIe is these men think they have the perfect sweet princess but really she is an old queen in her heart waiting for him to die or the marriage to end and she get her share either way she really doesnt care .... she is already tough to the situations life throws her . her heart is cold .

Young women here dont just marry old european men they like old dominican men too but the dominican men know the state of the heart of young women here and their thinking where a the outsider is just taken for a ride.

You are right in some instances. But you are wrong in many.
It’s true many young women become tough and end up loosing respect for men, but that is not always the case. A smart woman will know what type of men she wants her kid’s father to be, the one with the marriage and parental potential. And there are still lots of conservative females in DR. That you couldn’t find them, well that is another thing.
There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family.

And there are many that have taken the relationship with older men seriously, and have become part of their business, and are loyal and devoted wives.
I called to inquire regarding an apartment in a new building in Gazcue, and the call was answered by a girl with modest education, but trying hard and very diligent and intelligent. She was the young Dominican wife of the owner of the project, a Spaniard, and it showed that she came from modest means, but still she was trying real hard, and watching over the assets of her husband, like hawk. She was given an opportunity to come up in he world and she took it, and now is shining. Would she ever be accepted by the higher income snobbish Dominican society? Probably not, and with many reservations and murmuring behind her back, but who cares if she has strong enough of a personality to ignore these gossip hounds?.

"There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family."

All three of you raised interesting points which are correct in many ways. Poponlaburra's comment had mi esposa, mi hermana, mi tia and most of women in my home for the Holidays standing up and cheering. Great point "pop". As for a Dominican or latina wife as opposed to an American or other European, I would take a Dominican over any one else. When shown love, respect, commitment, Dominican women are the most loyal wives in the world. I would not trade mine for anyone else.

Im glad you an Bonaoense are having a happy relationship!!! Kudos to your marriage!

At least I have a wife silly kid, your Puerto Rican "salsa dancer" left you a year or so ago. No American is going to maintain a relationship with someone with no job, no money, no plans, no future and alot of debt. She dropped you like a "hot potato". I told you so. No money, no honey.

Now laugh about tat. (And Don't send me PMs about telling your business loser)

No please dont get angry Pluma Pluma! I understand you have a wife and you mentioned to me that you never thought you could ever fall in love with a she-male. Im so happy for you and yes i broke up with the lady but on good terms get it right. Just keep on trolling and lying you tough boy. no one is bothered.

I rest my case.

The supreme voice of opposing view points.

#132 - Posted 9 September 2010, 7:53 PM
brasilenosisback Location: United States Join date: April 2010 Member #: 4966 Posts: 925	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: mirabal4ever previously said: Quote: brasilenosisback previously said: Quote: mirabal4ever previously said: Quote: brasilenosisback previously said: Quote: generoso previously said: Quote: poponlaburra previously said: Quote: oliviaP previously said: The problem of this situation in the Dominican Republic is based on a lack of morals and a poverty mentality. Dominican women are abused and treated badly by their husbands (i am not dominican so i know what i am talking about) by the time they are 25 (young in another country ) they are past it here and their husbands have put them through so much emotionally, spirituall and often physically that they are tough . They play the same game the men play on them ( women talk a lot in the salon!!) They cheat they lie they use ( men get sex women get money ) they see men as objects and have lost all respect for them as humans and as companions. The same as men have done through lack of moral and self control. The male sex drive is higher as it is ordained to be by God. This ensures the continuacion of the human race ... because of lack of respect and self control in this country of both sexes not to mention a very low moral standard and a general acceptance of the situation , infidility is something you can be sure will happen in a marriage here. Abroad it may happen here it WILL happen , once that happenes something beautiful is lost between two people and distaster follows. Then you put in the mix the foreigen men who are really quiet innocent to the whole situation. The dominican woman knows how to play a man and a foreigen man is even easier than one here .These men dont come here to get married they come for a good time but get sucked in . They are for the most part played by these women who have all the tricks and DO NOT FALL IN LOVE as love only leaves you open to get hurt . This they know from experience or else they have been warned plenty by they mom aunties friend ... grandmothers (yes grandmothers) Love is out the window in this country very few people here are married for love and dont care about the money situation. This is where the LIe is these men think they have the perfect sweet princess but really she is an old queen in her heart waiting for him to die or the marriage to end and she get her share either way she really doesnt care .... she is already tough to the situations life throws her . her heart is cold . Young women here dont just marry old european men they like old dominican men too but the dominican men know the state of the heart of young women here and their thinking where a the outsider is just taken for a ride. You are right in some instances. But you are wrong in many. It’s true many young women become tough and end up loosing respect for men, but that is not always the case. A smart woman will know what type of men she wants her kid’s father to be, the one with the marriage and parental potential. And there are still lots of conservative females in DR. That you couldn’t find them, well that is another thing. There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family. And there are many that have taken the relationship with older men seriously, and have become part of their business, and are loyal and devoted wives. I called to inquire regarding an apartment in a new building in Gazcue, and the call was answered by a girl with modest education, but trying hard and very diligent and intelligent. She was the young Dominican wife of the owner of the project, a Spaniard, and it showed that she came from modest means, but still she was trying real hard, and watching over the assets of her husband, like hawk. She was given an opportunity to come up in he world and she took it, and now is shining. Would she ever be accepted by the higher income snobbish Dominican society? Probably not, and with many reservations and murmuring behind her back, but who cares if she has strong enough of a personality to ignore these gossip hounds?. "There are many people still getting together for love, respect, commitment, and the desire to raise a family." All three of you raised interesting points which are correct in many ways. Poponlaburra's comment had mi esposa, mi hermana, mi tia and most of women in my home for the Holidays standing up and cheering. Great point "pop". As for a Dominican or latina wife as opposed to an American or other European, I would take a Dominican over any one else. When shown love, respect, commitment, Dominican women are the most loyal wives in the world. I would not trade mine for anyone else. Im glad you an Bonaoense are having a happy relationship!!! Kudos to your marriage! At least I have a wife silly kid, your Puerto Rican "salsa dancer" left you a year or so ago. No American is going to maintain a relationship with someone with no job, no money, no plans, no future and alot of debt. She dropped you like a "hot potato". I told you so. No money, no honey. Now laugh about tat. (And Don't send me PMs about telling your business loser) No please dont get angry Pluma Pluma! I understand you have a wife and you mentioned to me that you never thought you could ever fall in love with a she-male. Im so happy for you and yes i broke up with the lady but on good terms get it right. Just keep on trolling and lying you tough boy. no one is bothered. I rest my case. The supreme voice of opposing view points.
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