generoso previously said:



If these are "Wrong reasons" (money, security), then I assume that "love" would ONLY be the right reason? I disagree with that. Many persons at different stages in their lives need and want different things, and it is OK to want them, and love does NOT have to be in the equation. I had a friend who had lots of breed and class, was a great painter and architect, but could not handle money and was broke all the time. He married a rich girl that wanted to go up in the social scale, and it was an even trade and good match, they complimented each other, and they are very happy together.
I do agree with the last part of your statement, and I have witnessed a few older "gold diggers" both male and female, that can't get it off their system. LOL. Those are the "users" and the ones that I don't care for.

FredCDobbs previously said:

A man had to choose one of his three girlfriends to marry. He decided to give each one $5,000 and see how they spent it.

The first one got a makeover with the money. She told the man, "I spent the money to look prettier for you because I love you so much."

The second one bought new golf clubs and a television. She said, "I bought these gifts for you because I love you so much."

The third one invested the money in the stock market, doubled her investment, returned the $5000 to the man and reinvested the rest. She said, "I am investing the rest of the money for our future because I love you so much."

The man thought long and hard about how each of the women spent the money. He finally decided to marry the one with the biggest tits.

msivills previously said:

Ok,, I married for money and status the first time and I thought that Love wasn't important. I was wrong ..... our friends and families raved about our Big Azz house, other properties and cars. Everything was fine until I started watching my friends whom had put family first and everytime we would go to there homes and stay over , I realized something was missing when we came back to our house. I could not figure out what was missing for years until I notice that when we had arguments , she was ready to leave .. then it was over. oneday I could not understand why give up the money ,security, status, material things. I was not in love with her, but I felt it would work and it did for 8 years. Then i found out why movie stars , entertainters, most people with money relationships never last together. ... There was no real LOVE to hold it together... and my big azz house was not a HOME..... Yes I like nice things , but I will put love and family first this time.... I rather be content , comfortable and happy than to be rich and unhappy!! Did you know that most Gold Diggers lose in the end?

etiennc01 previously said:



Roso says " money is the wrong reason and love is the right reason ect ?
No Roso you have a limited conception of love.
Let's redefine "LOVE:
Love is any number of emotions and attachement.
Emotions and attachement are interpersonal relationships and love act as a FACILITATOR of these relationships.
A young woman may have a pasionate desire for intimacy with a younger man that is emotion or romantic love She can also have a profound oneness devotion for an older man who has provided her with stability and security, that is platonic or familial love.
What would you do if you get a phone call in the middle of a sex session with your woman
.your mother's or father's car breaks down on a highway.? Would you complete the sex session or would you readily dress up and drive to their rescue ???

etiennc01 previously said:

The preacher and the congregation both love Jesus. Who is riding the big car and has the beautiful house ?
The one collecting the money in the name of Jesus.
Do you love Jesus ? Are you sure you love Jesus? well put the money in the basket if you really love Jesus !
Got my drift ?
Some women has been zombified into beleiving all the osbcure limits that society imposes on them.
But when a women is hungry , she will break free from all these stupid limits
As the saying goes : all animals when cornered will bite.

poponlaburra previously said:



Maybe so Generoso.
Normally people with a backyard and fruit trees never go hungry at least.

Back to the topic, in order for such age difference relationship to be long lasting money will not be the only thing to keep it together, the young woman has to admire or love some attributes in him. Like Picasso and his late wife Jacqueline. Their age difference was so disproportionate, but Picasso was and still is the best artist ever, so she did not love him for his money only, she loved and admired the artist in him, and that was timeless.