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New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery
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New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

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ABC NewsBy DENISE MARTINEZ-RAMUNDO and BILL RITTER | ABC News – Thu, Feb 23, 2012

At five foot, six inches, Apotheosis was shorter than the average American male and very unhappy about it.

So he did something other men who feel short might consider unthinkable: he opted for costly, painful surgeries to make himself "grow" a total of six inches.

"I realized that the world looked at me a certain way that I didn't look at myself in that certain way," said the 37-year-old New Yorker, who goes by the pseudonym "Apotheosis" in online forums and asked that "20/20" not use his real name. "I wanted the way I felt about myself and the way the world felt about me to be similar."

Apotheosis is one of a "growing" number of men pursuing limb-lengthening procedures for cosmetic reasons.

Dr. Dror Paley, a renowned osteopathic surgeon at the Paley Institute at St. Mary's Medical Center in West Palm Beach, Fla., performed 650 leg-lengthening surgeries last year.

Most of Paley's patients have severe deformities or dwarfism, but he also sees cosmetic patients.

"The majority who come for cosmetic limb lengthening have what we call, height dysphoria. They're unhappy with their height," said Paley, adding that therapy has little effect on changing a patient's views. "It's one of the few psychologic-psychiatric disorders that you can actually cure with the knife."

That is precisely the reason why Akash Shukla, 25, decided to undergo the procedure. At age 18, the New Jersey man was devastated to find out that his final height would be 4'11 ½.

"I felt like my short stature was kind of causing a void inside me- an emptiness in my heart, if you will," he said.

And not everyone was encouraging.

"There are people that have said, 'just accept what God gave you. But, in some way, shape or form everybody is trying to alter what god gave them. If God gave kids crooked teeth, they get braces," said Shukla, who is now almost 5'2" thanks to the surgery.

But limb lengthening is certainly not like straightening teeth.

Only a few doctors, including Paley, perform the procedure in the United States.

Surgeons break the leg bone in two and implant a state-of-the-art telescopic rod into the middle of the broken bones which then pulls the bone apart very slowly, about one millimeter a day.

New bone grows around it and tissues like the muscle, the nerves, the arteries, and the skin, regenerate as well.

At about $85,000, the procedure is expensive and the process lengthy. It takes at least three months to complete it and it requires demanding and excruciating physical therapy.

Apotheosis is still in recovery and he does not want to go public even though this is his second surgery. "I am still lengthening right now and there could be further complications and I don't want to talk about it successfully until it's been successful."

But he is candid about his leg lengthening journey on www.makemetaller.org, an online forum for people interested in the procedure.

"I am not telling anyone they should do this surgery, but I am laying out my experiences and the risks that I have taken and the successes that I have had and let people make their own decision," he said.

Many go to the site looking for advice on doctors, often foreign, as the cost for the surgery could be less than half as much overseas.

Apotheosis traveled to Germany to have internal rods implanted and now he is the one responsible for controlling the lengthening, twisting his legs back and forth to extend the rod inside.

Despite the pain and financial burden, patients like Apotheosis say those few more inches of height can make a big difference.

"When I walk down the street a different person perceived differently by the world for the rest of my life, you know, I am who I want to be now," he said.

He chose the moniker Apotheosis, he said, because "it means to become godlike -- become the best you can be. It's a Greek word."

"And that's kind of what I want? And I am not trying to be godlike; I am trying to be the best me that I can be."

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New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

I immediately thought it was Long John Silver or my neighbor Vic Rod Rodriguez..

But we are talking about height.

I like his words, he does not really want to be God like, but he does want to be the best man he can be and there aint nuthun wrong with dat.

Nevertheless, 6 inches sounds a bit far fetched. You can grow or stretch so much but not 6 inches. I don't really believe that. Perhaps 2-3 inches max, but not half a foot.
Edited on 2/25/2012 5:00 PM by guillermone.
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New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

I immediately thought it was Long John Silver or my neighbor Vic Rod Rodriguez..

But we are talking about height.

I like his words, he does not really want to be God like, but he does want to be the best man he can be and there aint nuthun wrong with dat.

Nevertheless, 6 inches sounds a bit far fetched. You can grow or stretch so much but not 6 inches. I don't really believe that. Perhaps 2-3 inches max, but not half a foot.



Guille,

Check out the video. It's rather interesting. One guy actually grew, I believe 12" Yes, you heard me, 1 foot taller with this procedure. He had it done and then wanted some more height. The pictures are shown on the video.

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#24 - Posted 25 February 2012, 5:56 PM
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Atabey previously said:

Quote:
guillermone previously said:

New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

I immediately thought it was Long John Silver or my neighbor Vic Rod Rodriguez..

But we are talking about height.

I like his words, he does not really want to be God like, but he does want to be the best man he can be and there aint nuthun wrong with dat.

Nevertheless, 6 inches sounds a bit far fetched. You can grow or stretch so much but not 6 inches. I don't really believe that. Perhaps 2-3 inches max, but not half a foot.



Guille,

Check out the video. It's rather interesting. One guy actually grew, I believe 12" Yes, you heard me, 1 foot taller with this procedure. He had it done and then wanted some more height. The pictures are shown on the video.



I just hope it is not hype. You know that today people will do anything to make money. I would have to see the whole process from start to finish and not a promo video. Nevertheless, I would check it out. You never know, I might just buy myself a inch or two. Is height sold by weight in inches or what?
Edited on 2/25/2012 5:57 PM by guillermone.
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guillermone previously said:

Quote:
Atabey previously said:

Quote:
guillermone previously said:

New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

I immediately thought it was Long John Silver or my neighbor Vic Rod Rodriguez..

But we are talking about height.

I like his words, he does not really want to be God like, but he does want to be the best man he can be and there aint nuthun wrong with dat.

Nevertheless, 6 inches sounds a bit far fetched. You can grow or stretch so much but not 6 inches. I don't really believe that. Perhaps 2-3 inches max, but not half a foot.



Guille,

Check out the video. It's rather interesting. One guy actually grew, I believe 12" Yes, you heard me, 1 foot taller with this procedure. He had it done and then wanted some more height. The pictures are shown on the video.



I just hope it is not hype. You know that today people will do anything to make money. I would have to see the whole process from start to finish and not a promo video. Nevertheless, I would check it out. You never know, I might just buy myself a inch or two. Is height sold by weight in inches or what?



Check out the VIDEO.

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/york-man-grows-inches-surgery/story?id=15776730#.T1ewHshqTnR
Edited on 3/7/2012 3:01 PM by Atabey.

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Quote:
Atabey previously said:

Quote:
guillermone previously said:

Quote:
Atabey previously said:

Quote:
guillermone previously said:

New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

I immediately thought it was Long John Silver or my neighbor Vic Rod Rodriguez..

But we are talking about height.

I like his words, he does not really want to be God like, but he does want to be the best man he can be and there aint nuthun wrong with dat.

Nevertheless, 6 inches sounds a bit far fetched. You can grow or stretch so much but not 6 inches. I don't really believe that. Perhaps 2-3 inches max, but not half a foot.



Guille,

Check out the video. It's rather interesting. One guy actually grew, I believe 12" Yes, you heard me, 1 foot taller with this procedure. He had it done and then wanted some more height. The pictures are shown on the video.



I just hope it is not hype. You know that today people will do anything to make money. I would have to see the whole process from start to finish and not a promo video. Nevertheless, I would check it out. You never know, I might just buy myself a inch or two. Is height sold by weight in inches or what?



Check out the VIDEO.


http://news.yahoo.com/york-man-grows-six-inches-surgery-184123767--abc-news.html" target="_blank">


http://news.yahoo.com/york-man-grows-six-inches-surgery-184123767--abc-news.html


I would consider the same procedure, only if it's an integral growth!!!!!!!!!
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New York Man 'Grows' Six Inches Through Surgery

PHOTO: A New York man who goes by the name Apotheosis underwent two costly surgeries to "grow" six inches.

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By DENISE MARTINEZ-RAMUNDO and BILL RITTER
Feb. 24, 2012

At five foot, six inches, Apotheosis was shorter than the average American male and very unhappy about it.

So he did something other men who feel short might consider unthinkable: he opted for costly, painful surgeries to make himself "grow" a total of six inches.

"I realized that the world looked at me a certain way that I didn't look at myself in that certain way," said the 37-year-old New Yorker, who goes by the pseudonym "Apotheosis" in online forums and asked that "20/20" not use his real name. "I wanted the way I felt about myself and the way the world felt about me to be similar."

Apotheosis is one of a "growing" number of men pursuing limb-lengthening procedures for cosmetic reasons.

Dr. Dror Paley, a renowned orthopaedic surgeon at the Paley Institute at St. Mary's Medical Center in West Palm Beach, Fla., performed 650 leg-lengthening surgeries last year.

Most of Paley's patients have severe deformities or dwarfism, but he also sees cosmetic patients.

"The majority who come for cosmetic limb lengthening have what we call, height dysphoria. They're unhappy with their height," said Paley, adding that therapy has little effect on changing a patient's views. "It's one of the few psychologic-psychiatric disorders that you can actually cure with the knife."
PHOTO: A New York man who goes by the name Apotheosis underwent two costly surgeries to "grow" six inches.

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A New York man who goes by the name Apotheosis underwent two costly surgeries to "grow" six inches.



That is precisely the reason why Akash Shukla, 25, decided to undergo the procedure. At age 18, the New Jersey man was devastated to find out that his final height would be 4'11 ½.

"I felt like my short stature was kind of causing a void inside me- an emptiness in my heart, if you will," he said.

And not everyone was encouraging.

"There are people that have said, 'just accept what God gave you. But, in some way, shape or form everybody is trying to alter what god gave them. If God gave kids crooked teeth, they get braces," said Shukla, who is now almost 5'2" thanks to the surgery.

But limb lengthening is certainly not like straightening teeth.

Only a few doctors, including Paley, perform the procedure in the United States.

Surgeons break the leg bone in two and implant a state-of-the-art telescopic rod into the middle of the broken bones which then pulls the bone apart very slowly, about one millimeter a day.

New bone grows around it and tissues like the muscle, the nerves, the arteries, and the skin, regenerate as well.

At about $85,000, the procedure is expensive and the process lengthy. It takes at least three months to complete it and it requires demanding and excruciating physical therapy.

Apotheosis is still in recovery and he does not want to go public even though this is his second surgery. "I am still lengthening right now and there could be further complications and I don't want to talk about it successfully until it's been successful."

But he is candid about his leg lengthening journey on www.makemetaller.org, an online forum for people interested in the procedure.

"I am not telling anyone they should do this surgery, but I am laying out my experiences and the risks that I have taken and the successes that I have had and let people make their own decision," he said.

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Many go to the site looking for advice on doctors, often foreign, as the cost for the surgery could be less than half as much overseas.

Apotheosis traveled to Germany to have internal rods implanted and now he is the one responsible for controlling the lengthening, twisting his legs back and forth to extend the rod inside.

Despite the pain and financial burden, patients like Apotheosis say those few more inches of height can make a big difference.

"When I walk down the street a different person perceived differently by the world for the rest of my life, you know, I am who I want to be now," he said.

He chose the moniker Apotheosis, he said, because "it means to become godlike -- become the best you can be. It's a Greek word."

"And that's kind of what I want? And I am not trying to be godlike; I am trying to be the best me that I can be."



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Edited on 3/7/2012 3:07 PM by Atabey.

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70-year-old virgin says she’s finally ready for love
70-year-old virgin says she’s finally ready for love

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70-year-old virgin Pam Shaw says she is ready for love. (John Robertson/Barcroft Media /Landov)

The 2005 film "The 40-Year-Old Virgin," grossed nearly $200 million worldwide based on the premise of a man who went without sex into midlife. But one real-life woman has managed to stay a virgin up to her 70th birthday.

That could be about to change. "Now's the time. I'm ready to take the plunge for the right bloke," Pam Shaw tells the Sun."My standards are still very high, though. I'm hoping to bag a tall, dark and handsome millionaire."

Shaw says she doesn't believe in sex before marriage and has been too busy with her career as a cabaret dance to settle down. "I feel I am ready to give marriage a go and maybe go to bed with a man," she said. "You are never too old for anything. Just look at Joan Collins."

According to worldwide statistics, the average person retains his or her virginity until 17.3 years of age. A 2010 Yahoo! reader survey found similar numbers, with readers giving an average age of 17.5 before having sex for the first time.


Shaw in the 1960's (John Robertson/Barcroft Media /Landov)

The paper notes that despite her voluntary lifelong abstinence, Shaw goes by the stage name "The Sexational Pam," and once fraternized with male sex symbols like "It's Not Unusual" singer Tom Jones and James Bond actor Roger Moore.

Shaw dressed as singer Tina Turner (John Robertson/Barcroft Media /Landov)

"Tom Jones was very good looking and we used to chat occasionally before I went on stage as the opening act," she said. "In the late 60s we performed together. There was only a curtain separating our dressing areas."

Shaw says she lived with her mother until she passed away at the age of 97 in 1995. Ironically, Shaw says men have often made incorrect assumptions about her sex life, or lack thereof, because of her career in the entertainment industry.

"I've never really been intimate with a man, just a bit of kissing. I had a sexy stage name and dressed sexy but that was all for my career," she said.

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