Ive already spoke to a few immigration lawyers and for the money they want is crazy just to file paper work one wanted 3500. He wants to get married there with his family. And after reading about what a swankie was I called him and flipped out lol but i was reassured on that issue. but here its a much longer process i believe than what it isin dr.

Correct.
To marry him here is easy.
There are even hotels which specialize in organizing (almost) everything.
I wish you luck!

m'frog

thank you. By the way i read the articles on a Swankie. I can say he is different. I get text mesg everyday i get phone calls and emails i speak to his friends family memebers. never once has he asked me for money. basically its all about me. To be honest he sent me money for my son who is not his so i think i picked theright one out of the bunch

Hmm, you keep calling it "Swankie" ?
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Swankie
n. An active and clever young fellow.
Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=swankie
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No, it's sankie.

But as you say that he's a DDD beyond any doubts, it does not apply to him....

Pero, vamos a ver.

m'frog

Si Vamos a ver. yo no soy una stupida gracias a dios. pero si mi futuro esposo dime minteras yo dile adios sin problemo. lol

Oh my bad on the spelling I am at work while writing this stuff and my boss doesnt pay me for beingon websites lol

Sin problemas?
Do you not know that once he's in the US you are responsible for him for a certain length of time (I think, it's two years).
I know of cases when the exported novio did a 180 at the airport on arrival in the "promised land" and was never seen again....

Anyway, this is my last post in this thread, as I am not a missionary.

m'frog

P.S.:
Improve your Spanish.

I can say he is different.

well I think you have been previously warned. But if anything remember that you have been warned.
When your heart is broken and shattered just remember that anonymous people who could care less and have nothing to gain tried to help. Save a copy of this page in a a safe place and ion ten years open it up.

Take it from me men will go to "GREAT LENGTHS" to get what they want. In his case, possibly it's a way out.

Well I am an optimistic person and if all he wants is papers thas not a problem. Cause Ive been Married once before so i kind of know how the game works. So I had an attorney draw up a prenump.

But i do appreciate the advice

Well if thats your consolation then best of luck.